You are short-sided. There is a bunker between you and a tucked pin, and every instinct in your body is screaming to hit the hero shot, the high soft flop that lands by the pin and saves par.
Do not hit it. That shot has maybe a one-in-ten chance of working, and the other nine times you are in the bunker, or worse, looking at double or triple. The math is brutal, and it is why good course managers beat better ball-strikers every week.
The smart play is boring, and boring wins. Chip safely over the bunker and land the ball 20 to 30 feet past the pin, on purpose. From there you have two putts for bogey, and you walk to the next tee with your round intact. A bogey you planned for beats a double you earned trying to be a hero. Every time.
This is what taking your medicine looks like. It is not giving up on the hole. It is choosing the shot with the highest expected outcome instead of the lowest. Tour players do this constantly. They just make it look like they were trying to get it close.
Practice the discipline, because it is a skill. Set up a short-sided chip with a bunker in front of the pin. Instead of trying to cozy it close, land the ball 20 to 30 feet past the pin ten times in a row. Focus on clean contact and distance control. You are training yourself to pick the high-percentage shot when it matters, which is the entire game of course management.
The common mistake: practicing this on the range and then hitting the hero shot on the course anyway. The drill only works if you actually use it when the scorecard is out.
Takeaway: when you are short-sided, the safe play that gives you bogey is almost always better than the hero shot that risks double or worse.
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